Poly+gamy

Well, 2day i perform my presentation titled polygamy. V need to do a forum and i say i agree wif it as polygamy really exist. My group has 6 member include me, 4 guys and 2 gals. 1 person do as MC and is a guy, Hafiz who do it. Tat left 5 ppl. I, xord and Hanif (Hafiz little bro) agree wif the point and tat left 2 gals who disagree. It quite ok cuz gals must dun agree wif polygamy. Who in tis world allow their husband to hav other wife. Ur face showed them u ok, but ur heart hurt so much. actually, i wan to the disagree part cuz i myself also nt agree. Well, u knw, Chinese now allow polygamy mah. Only Islam allow them and they max hav 4 wife. Madu Empat. No choice, but 3 man vs 2 woman.

Polygamy come from Greek word and tat mean multiple marriage. There are 3 types of polygamy:
1) Polygyny
2) Polyandry
3) Group Marriage

Polygyny is a marriage where men marry more than 1 wife. This is the most common u can c everywer. Polyandry is the other way round. It is a marriage wer a woman marry more than 1 husband. Tis only occur at Tibet wer 2 brother share the same wife. Group marriage is the combination of polygyny and polyandry. Tis marriage is good to further their generation bcuz they help each other to take care their children. Tis marriage also less argument between wife or husband. But this kind of marriage is quite rare same as polyandry.

Islam allow polygamy bcuz their religion ask them to. They allow polygamy if they hav to help them or the children. For example, they can marry more if they find out tat woman r disable to take care themselves. From here, they hav to help them by marry them. Same as the widow and the children, they can marry them to help the widow and the children to survive. But i need to confest tat this is the old stoy. Now, polygamy dun care much help ppl. If u like, u marry. Tat the real society. In malaysia, polygamy has increase from 5+++ to 7+++ from 1990 till now. C!!!! U dun tin tat around us also hav polygamy and it now increasing. Most is the malay.

Do the husband love their wife and it mean the first wife? Y u wan to marry other if u love ur wife? How u responsible? Tat the q tat is beong asked at the forum... Man love woman. Of course husband love their wife but sometime they love more to the ohers. There r many factors to tat.... mb husband is bored to their wife. Ugly, panas baran, changed, irresponsible to their children, and many more. I knw tat wife is very sam fu cuz hav to take care the family but guys 2. Husband hav to go out there and work and hav stress. Wife juz stay at home and do their housework. Some ppl will say how bout both go out to work.... Tat more worse.. Children they hav abandon and if both work at the diff place. They sure need to hav social wif other ppl and it allow them to get attracted easily. Husband get close to female worker and wife get close to male worker. Is tis cause polygamy to occur. 4 me, NO. Tis only make both of them divorce and not prefer marry more as the finance problem. Some say is their family, their family dun allow divorce and not also to polygamy. Tat the hardest part in marriage. Family!!!!!

Wat the condition to get marry? 4 me is 5C.....

Cash, Credit, Condo, Car, Career......

Without tis 5C, dun tin to marry or av polygamy. Tis show tat polygamy only occur wen tat ppl is wealthy or healthy. No money, nothing u can do. Most ppl now dun blif in love. I DO!!!! Iblif long time love..... Ok, talk bout polygamy, y ppl wan marry more? Beauty kill the beast... This word i learn from the movie KK (King Kong) =p If u tin marry more cuz of love, not all..... Ppl get marry cuz of the beauty or thier property.

To be continued........

Picture

Nothing much too post... Juz a few picture lol

Brisco..if i nt spell it wrong. So hot and red
Night scheldue at megamall. Night watch movie



Just for children but i wan to hav a ride

...............Great...........
Board at my class. So dirty....



Xord : Wat u looking at!!!!

Xord =p

Me at the class

So short cost me RM22
Me after cut the hair

Ghost : Strikes Back

Well, well, well.... If anyone hav read my blog at my friendster.. u sure knw wat happen... For those who 4get or not sure wati talking bout. View my blog at http://chaibin.blogs.friendster.com/chai_bin_diaryblog/. GHOST!!!!

Last week, the day is juz like normal. Nothing happen. As usual, i go to the class to sit for my test. Damnit... the test is quite troublesome. I got the whole answer wrong cuz 4get to put a zero at the answer. C!!!! For engineer, 1 zero missing tat mean all gone. Juz like accountancy, miscalculated the balance mean the whole acount wrong. No eye to c my paper, i juz passs it up. Then, i go to the SC (not school, but student centre) to hav a sit and get the cold air-cond there. Wen i come in, some malay guys call me.

??? : Chai, tengok tu apa?
I look at the sofa... Some ppl surround the malay gal...
Me : Apa telah berlaku?
??? : Entah, dia sudah macam ni bila i masuk tadi...

I look at the gal and it seem she get possessed by sth... Her face is red and she cried. Her body seem uncontrolable and need ppl to block her. Wao, the first thing i knw is tat ghost again. Last semester i also face the same ghost case at my hostel wer some malays gals run here and there and scream..... Tat time is so terrifying and the whole hostel malay need to sembayang everyday. Last sem i always heard ppl sembahyang even my door is closed....

Ok, talk bout the latest ghost. I dun care bout tat gals and i do my own thing. But right after i put my butt at the chair. Tat gals start to scream. Crazy man, she scream really horrible. Scream adn scream... non-stop... Then, one malay guy go and say some (dunno wat to say, Islam thing lah).... He start say louder and louder.... But no use, anoher gals start to fall down. And it start again. The ghost also possessed another gals. She also scream and scream. Now, 2 ppl scream. The whole SC full of their scream..... No choice, some ppl take the another gals, newbie tat juz get possessed out to SC. I continue to watch as i dunno wat can i help them.

Less than 10 minutes, another gals start to fall down, and it start again, SCREAM..... Holy shit, now i really scared. All the ppl now clear the SC now, and i saw many malay gals so frightened and go out quickly.... I also go out, i also scared. Not scared get possessed, but their scream really terifying... Then, i go to somewer else and wait for my next class...... Then, everyhing seem go normal again.. I ask how many ppl get possessed, they say total 7. Walao, i terkejut to hear tat. 7 ppl get possessed at school.

The next day, i heard my frens say he cant sleep well. He say wen he sleep, he suddenly awake but cant move his body. Like Chinese say, he was "bei gui yak"... Then, he also say he sense tat sth sit right next to him and watch him sleep all night. 3 person different place face the same problem. He also say, he dun care much and continue to sleep. Then, he was awake by his SMS wer the whole house was shocked. He say the sound was like "histeria" (malay word for ghost lah). Then, he let us hear the sound and he claimed tat he nv put this sound in his hp. ONG, the sound is really like the gal's scream... So terrifying............

The ghost story u can c anywer, but this time, it juz right in front of me. So many thing happen for me. Motor lost is an impact for me, and now ghost again. Dunno wat can i say to me...... So bad luck and ...... Dunwan say it anymore.....

Bad Month

September, i should say is a happy month. My sister birthday fall tis month at 21... And my frens birthday also at 13. I wun 4get her date cuz it is the date v sit for UPSR, if she still remember lah....Happy birthday, Amanda!!! Well, so many ppl birthday and might b happy to celebrate it....

But now, i tin is a bad month for me. Few days ago, i lost my key inside my room and i late for my test, Kalkulus. Few days ago again, i hav a high fever and hard to breath. Cannot go consult doctor cuz last time i go and c doctor, she charge me RM30. Walao, rompak meh!!!! Juz some pills and some cream need RM30 ah. More worse is my frens also go to c doctor, diff clinic to check her ears. Her left ears cant hear anything. Doctor say her ear hav sth stuck in it. She take sth and suck her ear.... So painful!!!! Wat it come out is all the kapas to korek ur ears. Aiksssss..... Next time i dunwan to use it although i never use it b4. Guess wat the doctor charge her. RM80 for the operation wat she call and some medicine. Crazy weh....

Many thing has happen recently. The worst thing has juz happen. I lost my most memorable thing. MY MOTORBIKE... My late father's motor has juz stolen last night at my house. I aledi locked the motor, but how they can stole it. Sob sob.... Soli, dad. I lost ur last thing left for me. My dad also left me a necklace but few months ago, the burglar has stole it from me. Now, everything has gone. Nothing left for me. Damn sad now... Cant blog any longer. Wait till i recover first then continue to blog lah. I really need some1 who i can talk freely how i feel, family, pals or frens..... Plz, Go dhelp me!!!!

Kiss.... Muax

Recently, i found a site which teach u how to kiss....
For those who never experience ur first kiss. try this....
For those whose lips belong to some1 else, try this too.....
For those who kiss everyday, try this too too to learn new thing.....
U will appreaciate me.....

http://www.funmunch.com/ecards/humor/greetings/sweetheart_kiss.swf

Bad dayyyyy

This morning, i hav a very bad day.... I wake up at usual time around 8 sth. I clean myself and mash some cloth b4 go to IKIP cuz if i come back to wash, is 2 late liao and i lazy to wash at nite. Then, i go to dry the cloth.. Change cloth, and pack my bag.... Nothing happen but after i go out the room, i realise sth is missing... But i dun care much... I put my bag and helmet at my motor and suddenly, i dun hav the key. OMG.... I check it twice and i think i leave at the table in my room.... Sie lol..... Quickly check my room and it's LOCKED. Nobody at house..... I called the landlord....

Lan : Hello...
Me : Mr Lan, remember me mah..... I left my key inside my room and now it's locked..
Lan : Yeah ah, but i now at school woh
Me : I knw, u hav spare key at ur house mah....*****his house juz behind mine******
Lan : I sorry but nobody at house. My wife go out to work and my children now at school.
Me : Hahhhh....
Lan : Ok, like tat.... U go to the some1 house wer got chinese word at the door....
Me : Wer?
Lan : Few block away only and u can get the spare key there....
Me : Ok, i go and find....

Tat house really few block away only, my house is 7 and tat house is 15. Quite near de.... I press the bell and an old man come out....

Me : Uncle, Mr Lan ask me come here and take the spare key.
Uncle : Who r u?
Me : I rent the house 7. I left my key inside the room
Uncle : Who ask u?
Me : Mr Lan...
Uncle : Ooh... U live tat house ah. Wait ah...
Me : Ok........
Few minutes pass...
Uncle : Ok, i open the house for u
But he not going to house 7, but the next door 15.
Me : Uncle, i not live in this house, my house is 7...... 7!!!!
Uncle : Oooohhh.... Teacher's house..... wait ah..
Me : ...........
Few minutes pass again....
Uncle : Here, u take the key.... Give me back wen u found the key.
Me : Ok, Tq...

Man, how many times i should explain to this old man. I say 7, he heard 15. I say twice to let him find the key. I say i left at the room, he tin i lost it. Wen i get my key back, it aledi 9.15am..... OMG, i late for my test...Kalkulus.......... Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Not A Happy Life

Long time cant on9 due to the stupid connection at IKIP and i cant msn anymore. *Sob Sob* All i can do is check my mail, update a bit my blog, and view blog but not much time. My timetable almost full and hardly find some time to on9.... I wun use the library pc to on9 cuz their connection damn slow slow slow..... Slower than my hometown TMNet line ah.. Cannot download new song, tat a hard time for me as i love listen to music. NO Music NO Life.... Tat wat i say to me. But i cant always listen to old song gah, sure boring.... But IKIP not allow us to download thing using their line.... Stupid IKIP!!!!

I need to bring my heavy laptop (not very heavy, juz hav to take some more books and total is like u carrying an old man to school lol). In fact, i go to school by motor, dun tin is easier for me to take along, is so ma fan. The bag is so big and sometimes i cant control my own motor. Few times nearly get accident (p/s : U can say i so lucky tat i not even get accident although i like to drive like a monster)

Sad sad sad...........

True Story (if it is)

A long time ago, there was a huge Apple tree. A little boy loved to come and play around it everyday. He climbed to the tree top, ate the apples, took a nap under the shadow...He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him. Time went by... the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree everyday.

One day, the boy came back to the tree and he looked sad. "Come and play with me," the tree asked the boy. "I am no longer a kid, I don't play around trees anymore." The boy replied, "I want toys. I need money to buy them."Sorry, but I don't have money...but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So, you will have money." The boy was so excited. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily. The boy never came back after he picked the apples. The tree was sad.

One day, the boy returned and the tree was so excited. "Come and play with me" the tree said. "I don't have time to play. I have to work for my family.We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?" "Sorry, but I don't have a house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house." So the boy cut all the branches of the tree and left happily. The tree was glad to see him happy but the boy never came back since then. The tree was again lonely and sad.

One hot summer day, the boy returned and the tree was delighted. "Come and play with me!" the treesaid."I am sad and getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?" "Use my trunk to build your boat. You can sail far away and be happy." So the boy cut the tree truck to make a boat. He went sailing and never showed up for a long time.

Finally, the boy returned after he left for so many years. "Sorry, my boy. But I don't have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you..." the treesaid. "I don't have teeth to bite" the boy replied. "No more trunk for you to climb on" "I am too old for that now" the boy said. "I really can't give you anything ...the only thing left is my dying roots" the tree said with tears. "I don't need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years." The boy replied. "Good! Old tree roots is the best place to lean on and rest. Come, Come sit down with me and rest."The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears.......

This is a story of everyone.The tree is our parent.

When we were young, we loved to play with Mom and Dad...

When we grow up, we leave them... only come to them when we need something or when we are in trouble.

No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy.

You may think the boy is cruel to the tree but that'show all of us are treating our parent. And love your parent.TIME is capable of understanding how great LOVE is!!!!